Welcome! We (Bill and Janean Fuller) want to thank you for allowing us the opportunity to minister to you. It will be both a privilege and an honor to walk with you in your life journey! Whether you live in Colorado Springs or out of the area/ country - we can help!

You are not alone - 57% of couples have sexual dysfunctions or problems. The Lord does not want you to struggle alone silently, He wants to heal your current or past emotional pain/trauma that has stolen the joy and beauty of being your spouse's "one flesh", passionate lover. Especially since it's the only time you are "one" emotionally, spiritually and physically. It's the most important aspect of your relationship (even above parenting, paying the bills, work responsibilities, being friends or ministry partners) and it's too important to ignore! 

We offer traditional talk therapy, healing prayer/spiritual warfare, Christian mind-body work, clinical "Intimacy Experiences" and Romantic Intimacy Retreats, which bring the Lord's healing touch to the intimacy in your marriage.

We also provide sexual healing for singles who desire to live a celibate life style without killing off their feminine or masculine heart. 

What is Christian Sex Therapy?

For couples: Christian Sex Therapy is the education, treatment and healing of sexual dysfunctions in these 4 areas: desire/libido differences, arousal issues, orgasmic problems, and/or pain disorders so the "one flesh" couple can celebrate their God-given sexuality in their marriage and be able to fully express their masculine and feminine souls.

For Singles: Our hope for you is that you will integrate a sexual theology within God’s economy along with your feminine or masculine soul without killing off your heart or giving into your carnal desires. Hopefully, this would lead to an embracing of your God given sexuality and identity in Christ, and using it to glorify the Lord, honor the Body of Christ and your future Adam/Eve and prepare you for your future marriage.

We combine the education and experience of a former small groups pastor and current spiritual formation director (Bill) who has completed the Human Sexuality certification through the American Association of Christian Counselors along with his wife's (Janean) education and experience. Janean has completed her advanced, post graduate, clinical Christian sex therapy (150 hours) training at the Institute for Sexual Wholeness and was supervised by the nationally renowned Christian Sex Therapist and author of of Celebration of Sex, Dr. Doug Rosenau. 

We provide Christian Sex Therapy for:

• Singles (who desire to live a celibate lifestyle while embracing their sexuality)
• Couples (marriage and pre-marital) counseling 

We provide Christian Sex Therapy in the forms of:

• Weekly individual or couples counseling sessions in the office with Bill and/or Janean utilizing talk therapy, Christian mind-body work, healing prayer and spiritual warfare. Each session is led by the Holy Spirit. He knows you better than we do! You will complete clinical and spiritual "Intimacy Experiences" and/or "Soul Care" at home.
• Intensive individual or couples counseling over the course of several hours or days in the office with Bill and/or Janean for clients who either live inside or outside the Colorado Springs area  utilizing talk therapy, Christian mind-body work, healing prayer and spiritual warfare. Each session is led by the Holy Spirit. He knows you better than we do! You will complete clinical and spiritual "Intimacy Experiences" and/or "Soul Care" at home.
• Weekly phone or Skype counseling utilizing talk therapy, limited Christian mind-body work protocols, healing prayer and spiritual warfare for clients outside the Colorado Springs area. Again your sessions will be led by the Holy Spirit! Couples or individuals will also complete clinical and spiritual "Intimacy Experiences" and/or "Soul Care" at home.
• Romantic Intimacy Counseling Retreats in person for clients who live near Colorado Springs.
• Virtual Romantic Intimacy Counseling Retreats via Skype video groups for clients outside the Colorado Springs area.
• For sexual issues that are less severe, individuals and couples can purchase "study-at-home" protocols that will be completed on a weekly basis for specific intimacy problems. These protocols always involve an initial counseling session with us to determine what you are struggling with and whether or not the "study-at-home" treatment protocols will work for you and which "study-at-home" protocol would be best for your issue. They also include two check-in, follow-up sessions (the first 1/4 of the way through and another 1/2 way through completing the designated protocol). At any time, if you hit a road block, you can purchase additional counseling sessions with us. This is truly an affordable option for those with less severe intimacy issues!   
  

YOU TELL YOUR LIFE STORY WHEN YOU MAKE LOVE TO YOUR SPOUSE!

Thats right! In fact, how your parents bonded or attached to you as a child; whether or not they met your spiritual, emotional, physical and affection needs; and how safe and intimate they were with you directly determines how you are currently able to be intimate with your spouse. Any kind of abuse or trauma you experienced also affects your ability to be intimate. And finally, your ability to be intimate with the Lord determines how intimate you can be with your spouse. Some of the influences which can affect your intimacy skills and make your “marital bed” really crowded include:

• Being raised by critical, controlling, abusive, needy or neglectful parents
• Abuse or trauma of any kind (emotional, sexual, spiritual, physical and neglect) 
• Being objectified by another person to satisfy their needs
  
• Induced shame over your sexuality as a child or adult by religion or family
  
• Lack of godly, informative sexual education by your parents
  
• Previous sexual or "emotionally permiscuous" partners you've formed "one flesh" ties with
  
• Sexual sin

Christian Sex Therapy involves a process, whereby healing and becoming “One” with your spouse always involves telling your sexual story to your spouse and in a confidential setting such as in counseling or at a retreat; completing spiritual, emotional and physical "Intimacy Experiences" (with your spouse at home) and/or "Soul Care"; attending a spiritual formation retreat for individuals or couples; and finally, allowing the Lord to heal those painful memories in counseling sessions utilizing healing prayer, breaking agreements, lies and vows from spiritual warfare, talk therapy, and utilizing the Christian mind-body work.

WHAT CAN YOU EXPECT? 

During your initial session of sex therapy (in person, on the phone or over Skype), you will discuss with both Bill and Janean your issues and longings regarding your intimacy together as an individual and/or as a couple. Future sessions will include an assessment of both the individual or husband and wife's sexual stories, (which may take up to six sessions), creating a therapy plan along with you, and then beginning the counseling, education and healing process. The length of time will depend on the complexity of your issue, the willingness of both the husband and wife to enter into the healing process, the completion of outside "Intimacy Experiences", and/or "Soul Care" and attending a retreat.

We don't use other secular sex therapist's approaches such as client observation, nudity, pornography use, or lustful images etc. and we never suggest anything that goes against Scripture or God's design for sexuality. We do encourage you to discuss with us any differing  beliefs because we desire each individual or couple to develop their own Sexual Theology within God's economy as stated in Scripture. We believe God can heal your marriage and restore your intimate love. We realize we are walking on sacred ground and will treat your intimacy and marriage bed with holiness and respect. It takes an incredible amount of faith to allow another person into this area of your lives and your courage shows how much you value marital intimacy and "oneness".

We do believe in erotic, passionate, spiritual, creative and playful lovemaking and we encourage this with all of our couples!

“The two shall become one flesh. You are joined with Christ and you are one spirit with Him. 

1 Corinthians 6:16-17